Introductionwho''s who in effective socializing1 first contactswelconing a visitorintroductions opening small talkfirst meetings2 getting to know each othereffective question and answerasking and responding to questions developing conversation3 more contactseveryday meetins inclusive behaviourgreetings ,requests,favours,small talkeveryday meetings4 arrangementsunderstanding and responding to invitationsinviting ,accepting ,decliningoffering refusingmaking arrangements5 arriving for dinner6 dinner7 after work8 farewellssocializing practice extension activities