相信自己是优秀的：每一个学生都应具备的成长理念

第一章　把握学习方向 腹有诗书气自华................................................2 莫自废武功....................................................5 勿让果树开谎花................................................8 学问无副科...................................................11 言之无文，行而不远..................................　.......14 当心网络中的陷阱.............................................17 不可偏离的航线...............................................19   第二章　掌握常规学习方法 学贵有方.....................................................24 预习的方法...................................................28 听课的方法...................................................32 及时复习.....................................................38 作业法.......................................................42 系统复习法...................................................47 学问学问，不懂就问.......................  ..................51 红襟鸟的教训.................................................55   第三章　提高学习信心 相信自己是优秀的.............................................60 先别谈“天才”...............................................64 汗水不会白流，付出就有回报................        ...........66 轻履者行远...................................................78 管住自己就是才...............................................82 用自信激发潜能...............................................88 滴水之力.....................................................92 冲出自卑是坦途...............................................95   第四章　坚定学习意志 学问无法速成................................................102 在压力下茁壮................................................105 答好“坚持”这张试卷.......................     ............108 梅花香自苦寒来..............................................111 自制是一切成就的出发点.......................      .........114 落后下的坚持................................................117 从凌晨4点的哈佛图书馆说起.................          .......121 给精神补补钙................................................124   第五章　敢说敢干就有才 敢于展示自己................................................132 敢于面对敢于竞争........................... ................135 站起来就有收获..............................................137 给自己一次机会..............................................143 考场一搏....................................................149 王侯将相宁有种乎............................ ...............152   第六章　自强是立世之本 依赖没有出路，奋斗才有光明................         .........156 贫不可怕，可怕的是贫而无志.............         ............159 要有敢吃“天鹅肉”的志气.............      ...............162 风物长宜放眼量............................................165 “成功文化”难育成功.................... .................167 莫给终生留遗憾............................................170 时间与人生................................................173 生活要求你多强，你就得多强...............       ..........177   第七章　砥身砺志成大器 不经磨炼，焉当大任....................... ................182 父母的“唠叨”............................................186 鸟长成鸵难飞翔............................................190 补上“这一课”............................................196 教育与尊重................................................200 踏平坎坷成大道............................................204 没有规矩，不成方圆........................ ...............207 井淘三遍出好水，人受调教武艺高..........           .......211   第八章　吃的学问，穿的智慧 当心“美味”..............................................224 一杯清水解干渴............................................228 拒绝宿舍的“一杯水理论”.....................    .........231 勿让时装成羁绊............................................234 “星迷”之迷..............................................236 名牌不等于尊严............................................240 解好花钱这道题............................................243   第九章　人际关系中的ABC 作有风度的君子之争.......................................250 海纳百川，有容乃大.......................................253 为什么不说“对不起”.....................................257 脸红的心里未必有鬼.......................................261 退一步海阔天空...........................................265 为他人说句话.............................................269 白沙在涅，与之俱黑.......................................272 种什么，收什么...........................................276   第十章　给力的思想观念如同一笔储蓄 问问自己.................................................280 别说“这与我无关”.......................................282 敬畏规则.................................................287 评选风波.................................................291 一篇分量超重的文章.......................................296 莫随他人论短长...........................................302