试着明媚,如同桃花的脸.........................................................001
——桃之夭夭,灼灼其华
生活和梦境,都在别处.........................................................008
——汉有游女,不可求思
她们的孤独是一座花园...........................................................015
——未见君子,惄如调饥
爱情住在什么地方..........................................................................022
——维鹊有巢,维鸠居之
装睡之人叫不醒....................................................................................028
——求我庶士,迨其吉兮
如果说你真的要走...........................................................................035
——不我以,其后也悔
与命运干杯..............................................................................................040
——肃肃宵征,抱衾与裯
我不能悲伤地坐在你身旁..........................................................045
——有女怀春,吉士诱之
人生是一场盛大的孤独..........................................................050
——泛彼柏舟,亦泛其流
中国男人为何爱写悼亡诗.........................................................056
——绿兮衣兮,绿衣黄里
我送你离开.............................................................................................064
——燕燕于飞,差池其羽
当真爱遭遇段子手.........................................................................070
——终风且暴,顾我则笑
在战火中穿梭,愿你毫发无损................................................075
——执子之手,与子偕老
是拳拳寸草心还是巨婴之歌?................................................080
——凯风自南,吹彼棘心
岁月忽已晚.............................................................................................087
——匏有苦叶,济有深涉
写诗的人“假正经”......................................................................092
——燕婉之求,蘧篨不鲜
你身上升起的璀璨光芒..................................................................096
——如切如磋,如琢如磨
一念桃花源............................................................................................103
——独寐寤言,永矢弗谖
《诗经》里有没有网红脸?................................................110
——巧笑倩兮,美目盼兮
哀莫大于心不死................................................................................116
——女之耽兮,不可说也
为悦己者容还是为己容.............................................................126
——自伯之东,首如飞蓬
我看见了万古愁................................................................................131
——知我者,谓我心忧
上古时代的怕与爱......................................................................136
——我生之后,逢此百罹
从“大叔”到“小鲜肉”...........................................................141
——不如叔也,洵美且仁
我们不说爱已很久了......................................................................147
——琴瑟在御,莫不静好
你再不来,我就下雪了....................................................................154
——子不我思,岂无他人
孤意与深情..............................................................................................160
——出其东门,有女如云
激流勇进与对酒当歌.......................................................................166
——蟋蟀在堂,岁聿其莫
看见自己独自面对无穷..............................................................170
——所谓伊人,在水一方
花椒有味亦有情..............................................................................176
——视尔如荍,贻我握椒
附篇:
诗经中的植物.........................................................................................182
再唱不出那样的歌曲 后记.........................................................199
参考书目....................................................................................................205