然后，你用了“如果”这个代表假设的词。那么，没有“如果”会怎么样呢？你心里大概觉得也能过得去吧。

接下来，你用了“保住”这个词。“保住”是一个相当被动的词，这表明你根本就没有主动进攻的心态。

最后，你问大家有信心吗？我想你得不到很正面的回应。连你自己都没有信心，可想而知大家的信心会怎样？

这就是一种当下的自我洞察。你觉得自己是在做一个正面的激励，但实际上呢？很显然，自己内心没有信心的时候，很多话虽然说了，但也不一定能够达到鼓舞别人的效果。

只有洞察自己当下的行为和语言，才能立刻发现问题所在并做及时的调整，以达到更好的效果。

倾听内心的声音

首先，我想给大家介绍一篇英语文章，它是我读过的、对内心最优美的诠释。

Very much，ever since you were brought into this world. When you couldn't open your mouth till the first two years on planet earth，inner voice is the one through which you interpreted and understood things.

Inner voice is the voice mouth of the subconscious mind.The subconscious mind is always acting as a secondary reflector of thoughts and ideas in the body. It justifies and rationalizes what is right and what is wrong. When we go aganist what the inner voice says，we get a guilty conscious and are bothered by it throughout our lives.

At times when we are feeling low or those unforgettable moments when we are let down,we seem to need some kind of emotional or mental support. We usually speak to our closest pal or our dearest family member during times of distress to ease the burden. At such times we get over the initial drizzle of emotional anxiety and mental restlessness，because of the pepping up by our empathic listener. We suddenly feel rejuvenated because our inner voice alerts us to get on with things and leave the things of past on the memory books of our brain.

The inner voice is always right most of the times because it knows us better than others and probably even ourselves. It is the dare devil child of the intuitions which we have been having since childhood. It's good to go by intuitions most of the tims because its the response provided due to the synchronism between our mental and physical being.